Maybe you should envision what your WISH coming true would really mean for your feelings, action and beliefs.

So you move in with her, is that what you wish? Think about it that way and if you really DO wish that, well you are probably going to be the one to get it.

* All communication begins with some assertion -

* an interruption of some kind

* coupled with a message and

* followed by an expectancy of agreement and action.

It's my policy to assert my wish if I get the chance.

X causes Y which means Z.

My wish causes her to think about it which means she likes me.

A wish is a kind of prayer.

She smiled so she likes me.

It's my policy to communicate with the right person whenever I wish something to happen.

Only communication lets you assert your wish and get agreement.

Without real communication, agreement is less likely, left up to raw coincidence.

Once you set a priority you are outlining an implicit series of tasks.

That is where you must use your imagination to envision what tasks would enable you to achieve that priority.

I think this is my flaw.

Assert my WISH and GET GOAL.

...so therefore people never say "no". They always say something other than "no" because "no" hurts them to say, literally. Therefore, you will never actually get a "no" answer, no matter your question. You'll get an excuse, but you will never get NO.

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...comes entirely from the Ability to Envision Tasks.

The World Wide Wish

* A policy is a sequence of tactics that is enacted on a trigger event.

* A trigger event occurs

* You say "do I have a policy on this?"

* If so you start with the first tactic in the sequence.

* If not you regroup and devise a policy for next time.

If you agree with my WISH then it becomes OUR wish.

If I can assert my wish and present evidence then others will agree with my wish and help make it happen.